A life in the theatre is very much like a Dickens novel. People come into your life and go out again. Sometimes they reappear in a later chapter. Sometimes they are written out of the story far too soon. That was the case with the recent passing of talented costume designer and delightful soul Michael McDonald. It’s not that Michael and I were close friends. I met him in 2014 when he costumed me for the 30th Anniversary production of The Foreigner at the Maltz Jupiter Theatre, and I was thrilled to be reunited with him a couple of years later when he did costumes for the Cheers Live on Stage national tour. I always hoped to do more shows with him. His larger-than-life personality, infectious laugh, obsession with details, and commitment to character all made him unforgettable. Between gigs Michael and I remained in touch on social media to share our (frequently horrified) impressions of current theatrical events.
Michael was from Allentown, PA, like my dear friend Annmaria Mazzini, who first worked with Michael at Muhlenberg college when she was only 16, dancing in a production where Michael was both costuming and playing a role! He always spoke fondly of his many years designing there for a host of productions.
And of course he went on to have a wonderful career on Broadway and in regional theatres around the country, including many years at The Public Theater, and earning Tony and Drama Desk nominations for his truly magnificent designs for the 2009 revival of Hair.
Annmaria and I went to the beautiful celebration of Michael’s life and career at the Public the other night. There were many hysterical stories (Michael had a rapier wit and never minced words!), some lovely music provided by some of the cast members of the 2009 Hair, more than a few tears, and a lot of love. I was sorry that no actors were invited to speak, as any one of us could have added another perspective to Michael’s gifts as a designer: we actors always felt respected and heard and loved in his presence. He collaborated. He dished. The fact that a theatre full of people gathered in his name months after his passing to celebrate him says it all. You didn’t have to know him well to respect, admire, and love him. His passing is also a reminder to me as I grow older myself that nothing is guaranteed and every day is a gift. And every human being you meet in this challenging business is a potential kindred spirit and lifelong friend.
I’m grateful I was lucky enough to spend some of those days working (and laughing) with Michael McDonald. I raise a virtual toast to his memory. He will be missed by many. ❤️